It amazing just how often I hear that perpetual cry "It's not my fault, or “it's not my responsibility". It seems that in today's society no one wants to take responsibility for anything. And now we don’t even want to take responsibility for our own relationship failures. Are we seriously suggesting that “my marriage failed because I was forced to have a relationship with a work colleague” or “my relationship failed because my boss made we work long hours”.
How about, we all take responsibility for our actions. We don't abdicate our responsibility. We admit we are human; we make mistakes, and move forward from there. Try and I mean really try not to make the same mistakes over and over. But most important of all, take the responsibility for our own screw ups and don't put the blame on anyone else.